So, it seems that most of the rest of the visits to the wide tent these days are folks searching about how to write a "Dear Birthmother Letter." Welcome, and congratulations on your decision to adopt! Let me recommend two must-read sites for prospective adoptive parents:
Open Adoption Support
, a great place for all members of the adoption triad to meet and share in a safe environment. This site was designed and is managed by Dawn, who blogs at This Woman's Work
(see my review of Dawn's blog here
). Dawn is one of the most thoughtful commentators on open adoption and domestic adoption ethics. You'll learn a lot from her, more than just how to write a "Dear Birthmother Letter." Run, don't walk!